Sunday, July 15, 2012

♪ 1 ♪ My Natural Hair Journey - Part 1


Age 1
Nicole vs. Her Hair – No way I could make this stuff up!
6 months old
Remember the movie “It’s A Thin Line Between Love and Hate?” Some of you old school fans might remember the song recorded by the Persuaders and re-made by the 90s sex group H-Town. Up until about a year ago, that was sole track for the battle entitled: Nicole vs. her Hair. L 




Needless to say growing up as a YOUNG BABY, I ‘black baby girl curls.’ My hair was doing exactly what it was supposed to do: My hair was growing – well on its way be as long as that chick from Enter the Dragon!

Jkwon*, HawkGate, and SoulGlo/FollowtheDrip
"Hey! Let's play Barbershop!"
Jkwon always come to see us during the Christmas, Easter, and summer breaks. It was during one of these breaks that Jkwon and I became bored. The story goes that we were watching music videos and a group came on & they had Mohawks. I told my older brother that I wanted a Mohawk.

Night of Hawk-Gate!
1 hour later my brother gave me a Mohawk, razoring away the sides of my hair.


After the ‘HawkGate,’ I had the typical black woman’s hair upbringing but with my own additions. You know what I’m talking about Saturday shampoo in the kitchen sink (Mane & Tail – gotta get those sides to grow!), the sitting on the kitchen floor until your butt as your mom greases your scalp and ends until they’re glistening and then takes the hot comb to get those hair straight and then takes the curlers to make it curly again. (A SENTENCE FRAGMENT & A OXYMORON!) Slowly the sides and edges began to grow, but they were verrrrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy slow.

Letting my Soul-Glo!
My mother and my stylist Ms. Dee Dee (RIP), tried everything to get my hair to grow. From hair placenta, urine, and even electric shock! Finally by the time 5th grade came around, my hair was healthy and growing and the sides were slowly coming along and then mother decided it was time for me to meet Jheri. Curl that its. 




Jheri and I remained friends through the end of 6th grade. Then House Party came out….


I did survive the taunting and the teasing and came out of high school, college, and into adult woman hood unscathed. My hair had seen good days and bad days. From braids to wigs to weaves to wraps and my hair grew everywhere but on the sides. On top of that, after dying my hair cinnamon, it was thoroughly dried and was literally come out in chunks. I actually had PATCHES in my hair.  

Finally my stylist Marjorie decided it was time to compromise with my sides and go short!

TO BE CONTINUED.......



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